Anyone out there have a traveling spouse ?
I do.. and sometimes its nice, and sometimes it sucks.
I try not to lie.
I try not to lie.
My husband is on the road a lot, which means a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of flight times, countdowns and quick cleaning on Thursday nights.
5 years ago when he started his job, I thought nothing of it. I literally had no idea what we were getting into. I was so excited for him to start this career, and I'm still so happy that he loves his job but everywhere I looked, there was no support for what I was going through. At first I thought it would be easy, I work full-time, I take classes online and have things at the house to keep up on.
Boy was I wrong... not about having time on my hands, but about how rough it would get.
When people ask me what my husband does, I explain that he travels, and they always guess he's in the military. He's not, and comparatively the job is much easier, the travel sucks, but the job itself is not requiring he put his life on the line. He works on high voltage machines and does some electronic stuff that goes over my head... 😂
Having a traveling spouse is a different ballgame though.. You can't complain to friends because, "well he's just so lucky, and it really isn't that bad, I mean he gets to stay in hotels, rent cars and travel around the US."😶
Welllll, say what you may but it sounds so much more glamorous than it really is. I know I sit here and legit complain about my husband traveling, but it gets hard on the ones at home. I wake up Mondays and sometimes he's just gone because of an early flight, or I get home after a bad day and I have to deal with all of the chores that we may dread at the end of a long work day. There is no one to share that responsibility with, even though you signed up to have someone there at all times. There are days where I want to give him a call to vent it out, but the time difference isn't in my favor. There are days when you need your biggest fan in your corner, and they're out on the road. I know that I don't have kids, or even understand the struggle that others are going through, but that doesn't mean that my personal problems aren't big to me.
Sometimes, I feel that I'm not able to complain about him traveling, because there are people who are gone months at a time, instead of weeks... there are people out there being a full-time parent while doing all the work, chores and everything else.. trust me, i know this. My mom was a single mom, and its not what she signed up for, but its how life turned out for us.
But you know, with all of that... and more there are also some amazing things that come out of your spouse traveling!
Every time he calls, I rush to the phone, and when I get pictures, they're always of the random little towns he's visiting.
When he gets home its butterflies all over again, and every Friday night I get the best sleep because he's by my side.
5 years ago when he started his job, I thought nothing of it. I literally had no idea what we were getting into. I was so excited for him to start this career, and I'm still so happy that he loves his job but everywhere I looked, there was no support for what I was going through. At first I thought it would be easy, I work full-time, I take classes online and have things at the house to keep up on.
Boy was I wrong... not about having time on my hands, but about how rough it would get.
When people ask me what my husband does, I explain that he travels, and they always guess he's in the military. He's not, and comparatively the job is much easier, the travel sucks, but the job itself is not requiring he put his life on the line. He works on high voltage machines and does some electronic stuff that goes over my head... 😂
Having a traveling spouse is a different ballgame though.. You can't complain to friends because, "well he's just so lucky, and it really isn't that bad, I mean he gets to stay in hotels, rent cars and travel around the US."😶
Welllll, say what you may but it sounds so much more glamorous than it really is. I know I sit here and legit complain about my husband traveling, but it gets hard on the ones at home. I wake up Mondays and sometimes he's just gone because of an early flight, or I get home after a bad day and I have to deal with all of the chores that we may dread at the end of a long work day. There is no one to share that responsibility with, even though you signed up to have someone there at all times. There are days where I want to give him a call to vent it out, but the time difference isn't in my favor. There are days when you need your biggest fan in your corner, and they're out on the road. I know that I don't have kids, or even understand the struggle that others are going through, but that doesn't mean that my personal problems aren't big to me.
Sometimes, I feel that I'm not able to complain about him traveling, because there are people who are gone months at a time, instead of weeks... there are people out there being a full-time parent while doing all the work, chores and everything else.. trust me, i know this. My mom was a single mom, and its not what she signed up for, but its how life turned out for us.
But you know, with all of that... and more there are also some amazing things that come out of your spouse traveling!
Every time he calls, I rush to the phone, and when I get pictures, they're always of the random little towns he's visiting.
When he gets home its butterflies all over again, and every Friday night I get the best sleep because he's by my side.
Here's to another couple days, and that Friday rush will be back..
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